Had to drop a out of a lot of groups and many so-called friends because I just found that there are huge percentage of the men looking for partners they felt they could dominate, literally someone thye thought they were “better than.” I would guess a psychologist would find these sort of guys had ’self-esteem” issues, but I have no time for it, myself.

Indeed there are a lot of people who ought to just stay home, where everything, including the people are “perfect”. I’m ready to move to that place myself if I ever find out where it is

Some even tie up a VHF radio channel station with their own chatting nets and get upset that the locals are using it too.

It makes me wonder why people travel or even leave their own home country just to get upset and even angy, in another country.

You’re right in that I know nothing about what had happened to this guy before he walked in that door … he may had been filled to overflowing by some other frustrations/mistreatment I knew nothing about … but,of course, neither me nor the other people with their jaws hanging open could have known.

Things surely do operate differently, and I don’t want to sugar-coat, you _will_ fall victim to the run around or surly people from time to time … but I guess my tip for the day would be … even if the same people were ‘a-holes’ in the past? At least give them a minute or two opportunity to so better before unloading … and from ancient days of using a double-barrel 12 guage … never let fly with both barrels at once … if you blast both rounds at the first target it takes along time to get reloaded for the next, perhaps better shot ….